For the cross dressing option, is wearing a velvet dress ok? Asking for a friend
Velvet dress is certainly on the table. Honestly don't know why the tables aren't all filled with fruit unless of course they've turned.
Aliens - ever met a cross dressing alien? They have a hard enough time adjusting to earth wares without mixing them up intentionally. Seen a few in my time here and their craft is phenomenal. We are so gullible.
I'm becoming more open to the idea that genders do not exist in the afterlife. Spirits aren't necessarily male or female, they are evolved beyond us. An angel could appear as a male or female and if you make the deep spiritual connection with them then you have achieved the intended purpose. If not then perhaps it is time for the lampshade and a bit more study.
Demons - must avoid at all costs. Superficially they can appear just as tempting and pleasing to the eye as an Angel, of course you never ever try and make the deep spiritual connection with them (don't look at it Marion!)
You feel me?