Dear forum members,
I have posted this in a different thread but I would like to leave this forum having said my bit, under the circumstances.
I have a particular sense of humour which perhaps doesn’t translate well on a forum. I accept that. I like a bit of a wind up, yes. I like to have a laugh too. Perhaps I am also a little defensive, which comes across as being rude. I will not, however, accept being called a bully.
When I used the words ‘If you are able’ in response to Soloyan I wasn’t suggesting he is incapable. Perhaps a better phrasing would have been ‘if you feel you you are able’. Or, if you prefer a still lighter version, ‘if you want to’. The reason I did that is because, just as he views me in a particular way, I genuinely do not believe he is entirely innocent of some of the behaviours he has accused me of. An tha may disagree but an tha is not god. His opinion is just that. An opinion.
Even so, between Soloyan, the moderators and other people telling me to fuck off and calling me an asshole I can see I am not welcome here.
The irony of all this being rounding on an individual - which is what is happening here - is, in itself, a form of bullying, even if you think you are right. A modern day witch hunt, if you prefer. Rounding on an individual is not something I’d do, but then again I’m not a bully.
I’ll sign off from this forum. I might have a look at what’s happening in the future, but not as an active member with an account. In fact, mods why not block me from signing up. With that in mind perhaps people could refrain from writing ‘thank fuck he’s gone’, or whatever, as whether you like it or not, I have feelings that get hurt too. I hope some of my posts have revealed me as a thoughtful human being, in among the banter.
I wish you all well.
Willy